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In 2015 our family of 5 downsized our house by 2,000 square feet.

Then I created an online business to help us pay off debt and travel the USA.

Here’s how it all happened.

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Have you ever considered NOT being an active parti

Have you ever considered NOT being an active participant in your own life? For just a second?
.
I started writing a book.
.
After sharing my life stories on TikTok I’m beginning to realize I just might have something to say. A story worth telling.
.
So I started writing today and you know what?
.
I have been through some shit, folks!! Wow! 😳
.
I forget because I choose not to reflect or live in the past. But hot damn.
.
Another thing I’m realizing as I reflect back on some of the darkest days?
.
I didn’t perceive them as darkness. They were just another day. Not good. Not bad.
.
I think back on dark, dark times like my son’s illness and I think ... during those times I just had to let life happen to me. No more pushing or hustling. I had to “let go and let God” as they say.
.
But it wasn’t an active choice. Just a natural response. I just let go and become present in each moment.
.
So as I dive deeper into my childhood years, I keep saying the word, chaos. Chaos.
.
That’s all there was. Chaos. But I was always still. Nothing was “traumatic.” It just was.
.
Maybe I was just existing. Just allowing. Just letting go and letting God.
.
The whole time I was being guided. — I would pray to a God outside of myself but as I retell these stories I see, that God presence was within me.
.
God shows up in chaos. And when my whole childhood felt like chaos, I can see how that relationship was strengthened ... and I was completely unaware of it.
.
We so badly want to show up for our lives (as we should). But we often start pushing and striving for where we think we need to go. Where we think we need to be.
.
It’s like we have the option to just sit in a row boat and easily paddle downstream but instead we try taking a different path or fighting the current. Or we see someone else’s boat in a different stream, so we try to get to that stream because we think it’s BETTER than ours.
.
But WHAT IF we just allowed ourselves to exist? Allowed ourselves to let go. To stop being so damn active for just a second?
.
We would take in each moment, interpret it differently. We would feel more peace. We could learn in chaos.
#thankschaos #letgoandletgod

Wouldn’t it be great if life was as predictable

Wouldn’t it be great if life was as predictable as a movie?
.
They fall in love and stay in love. No further conflicts arise or make them question their decision.
.
She learns she doesn’t need a man. Inner turmoil over. Trust issues resolved. She could be happily alone forever.
.
They start the business, struggle for 2 seconds and then BOOM millionaire status and find the loves of their life. No work/life balance power struggles here.
.
Is there a movie where the main character just sits in her bed for days and days debating the 800 different choices she might want to make in order to live a life with purpose, fun and money?
.
Would it be entertaining to watch someone slip into slow, silent moments of a total self-identity crisis?
.
No music allowed. There is already too much chaos in her head.
.
Silent film. Low movement. Lots of facial expressions of panic. Sounds like something Andy Warhol would have made 😂
.
Should I start filming myself in these moments and then call it art? 🤔
.
Ultimately what I’m trying to say is Baby can take herself out of her own damn corner, ok Johnny (hoping you get that reference) and ya know what? She’s probably going to have to keep doing it over and over again because life is complicated like that.
.
For those of you asking the questions like, “What’s next for me?” “Am I doing what I’m supposed to be doing?” “Can someone just TELL me the next right move?!”
.
This is to let you know, you are not alone.
.
Embrace the flow of life. Dance when you can. Don’t overthink it. Try to enjoy the unknown and have the time of your life.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#dirtydancing #lifeisntamovie #moviemontage #lifemetaphor #lifecoach #inspiredliving #entrepreneurlifestyle #selfdoubt #mentalhealth #purposedrivenlife #livingwithpurpose #minneapolis #meetminneapolis #stonearchbridge #nooneputsbabyinthecorner

I am starting to fear a Covid winter. Anyone else?

I am starting to fear a Covid winter. Anyone else?
.
I’m realizing there are less free options outside the home and it’s making me a little anxious.
.
It was so “easy” when quarantine hit...we just bought a minivan and started camping out of it.
.
Somehow camping out of it is less appealing when snow is coming and temps are headed to below freezing 🥶 🚐
.
Trying to make a #hyggehome and will probably up the “go out” budget.
.
Any other social butterflies feeing a little panic around a socially distanced winter?
.
.
.
.
.
#covidwinter #winteriscoming #glaciernationalpark #familieswhotravel #travelfamily #minivanlife #covid2020 #quarantine

Bald, bankrupt, divorced, recovering alcoholic and

Bald, bankrupt, divorced, recovering alcoholic and single dad were NOT on my list.
.
I had a coaching call yesterday where we talked about manifesting/praying for an ideal partner.
.
I have been open about making a list of all the qualities I found important in a potential partner just before I met Tom. Here’s some of the big ones:
👉🏽 Fit but not appearance obsessed
👉🏽 NO GAMERS!
👉🏽 Likes sports but isn’t on any of those leagues
👉🏽 Has not slept with half the female population
👉🏽 Makes me laugh (this was most likely number one on the list)
👉🏽 Listens to me and can have serious conversations (followed closely by this one).
.
If I had heard about Tom’s traits alone (the first few I listed) I would have screamed NO WAY!! That one is NOT FOR ME!
.
But as I realized he met everything on my list, I realized some important things.
👉🏽 No one can help balding. At least he ditched the horse shoe look
👉🏽 His bankruptcy was in large part due to the fact that he spent tens of thousands of dollars fighting for custody of his daughter
👉🏽 Recovering alcoholic means he recognized this problem, sought counseling for himself, stopped hanging out with negative influences and was...
👉🏽 Trying to be the best solo dad he could possibly be.
.
Let’s never forget we all come with baggage.
.
Let’s never forget not to focus too hard on faults or mistakes.
.
Be particular but not picky. Unless you want others to be the same way with you.
.
I have constantly pondered what has made our 12 year marriage successful and at the end of the day it boils down to 2 factors:
👉🏽 We both went through a lot of crap and made a lot of mistakes!
👉🏽 We met each other at a time where we were both determined to live better moving forward.
.
Don’t focus too hard on a list, or on small qualities.
.
Focus on the feelings you want in your relationship.
.
Imagine the strong bond you want.
.
Seek that.
.
And only seek those who want the same.
.
Happy Friday. 🤪
.
.
.
.
.
#marriagegoals #marriageadvice #manifestingmindset #manifestyourdreams #marriagestory #husbandandwifegoals #honestmarriage #growtogether #selfimprovements #selfgrowthjourney #marriedmybestfriend #strongertogether💪

That face you make when that one person KEEPS doin

That face you make when that one person KEEPS doing that thing you hate that they do.
.
Spoiler alert: leave them to their own devices. (Swipe for the full breakdown)
.
Other people’s stories, the struggles they face or the issues we believe they have are none of our business.
.
Focusing on someone else’s perceived lack is really a way for us to distract ourselves from where we believe we are lacking.
.
If you want to find consciousness in others, you must first work to find consciousness in yourself.
.
Also, if their behavior is repeated or like clockwork, allowing yourself to repeat your same reaction will never improve the situation.
.
All you can do is change how you show up.
.
This doesn’t mean you need to be walked on or disrespected.
.
It just means you show up differently to save your own sanity.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#innerwork #spiritualgrowthspurts #spiritualawakeningquotes #lifecoachingforwomen #otherpeopleskids #drivemecrazy #conciousliving #conciousness #conciousminds #awakenedwoman #awakenedmind #awakenedconsciouscollective #lifecoach #coffeetime #coffeedate

Are you following someone else’s blueprint?! . F

Are you following someone else’s blueprint?!
.
First thought...yeah, there are guidelines for a good life. Like being kind to your body, letting go of anger and loving others.
.
But do you find yourself following someone else’s plan for success?
.
👉🏽 5am wake up
👉🏽 Drinking a gallon of water
👉🏽 5 days a week workouts
👉🏽 Having a daily schedule
👉🏽 Date nights once a week
👉🏽 Make your bed
.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there are things that can HELP improve your life, HELP you accomplish what you want.
.
But answer me this, and be honest...could you still follow all of those guidelines and be miserable?
.
In a desire for results or change we can get caught up in the outter work and ignore the inner work and our spiritual connection.
.
Why? Well, honestly, because the inner work is harder.
.
We don’t want to face our demons. Making your bed in the morning is a lot easier than sitting with the discomfort of knowing you are in a job that’s unfulfilling.
.
So you hope if you neatly make the bed and drink your water, the outter successes will trick you into believing you have inner success.
.
So the next time you get swept up in reading about someone else’s plan for success or a new tactic for self improvement ask yourself what FEELING you are really seeking. Check in to see if you are using this outter strategy as a way to avoid an inner problem.
.
If you’re ready for the inner work, join my Undefined training. You can sign up on my website👆🏽This is the kick-starter guide to helping you get back in tune with YOU rather than seeking external resources or validation. And I would love to have you there. ❤️
.
.
.
.
.
#innerhealing #innerworkings #innerchildhealing #reparenting #selfgrowthjourney #spiritualawakeningquotes #lifecoaching101 #findyourpurpose #purposedriven #familieswhotravel #momswhohike #lifecoachformoms #wildlifephotography

There is a good chance your goal journal is holdin

There is a good chance your goal journal is holding you back.
.
Remember when you were a kid and you wanted ice cream for every meal? 🍨What would have happened if you would have gotten it? You would have been thrilled for a while, right? Then...mostly likely...stomach ache and nasty teeth. 😳
.
Remember in high school when you were soooo in love?! It was love FOR SURE! ❤️ Now you’ve grown up and that “love of your life” literally hasn’t aged a day since high school and not in a good way. What would have happened??? 😳
.
How about now when you write millionaire goals, true love goals, weight goals...
.
There is a good chance that these might happen:
👉🏽 You will be UNHAPPY every day until those goals are reached
👉🏽 If anything steers you away from a goal, you will feel like a failure
👉🏽 You go into “hustle” mode and live in a total state of exhaustion
👉🏽 You obsess over your goal and let other areas of your life slide
👉🏽 You attain your goal. You are happy! Now what? Time to chase the next one! (Follow steps 1-4)
👉🏽 You attain your goal. You’re not happy. It’s not quite what you thought.
.
Are these steps ABSOLUTE? No. You could totally set a goal, attain it and do it in a chill, happy manor while maintaining the balance of all other areas of your life.
.
BUT if you are like the majority of us (me too), these steps will hold true.
.
So what the hell do you do to accomplish anything if you shouldn’t set goals?
.
Try these...
👉🏽Daily goals - workout to feel good, reach out to 5 potential clients, write 1 chapter of the book
👉🏽Emotion goals - what emotion do you crave that lives at the heart of all of your “goals.” Work on existing with this emotion right now.
👉🏽Serving goals - how do you want to have showed up in the world? As a hustler? An inspirer? A helper? How can you combine this desire with your biggest goals?
.
Then (and this is key) allow your goals, dreams or visions to shift.
.
I had a goal of marrying my true love but if I had insisted he look identical to Chris Hemsworth, I would be missing out on an amazing marriage 😉
.
The thing is, our goals are usually a front for the deeper life we truly seek.
.
Don’t be mislead.
.
#goalsetting2020

On vacation I tried to manipulate fire 🔥 . Our

On vacation I tried to manipulate fire 🔥
.
Our little family climbed this mini mountain in North Dakota. The entire time Tom kept saying, “We can’t do this.” “This is too hard.” And the whole time in my head I was going, “Ugh stop it ya big baby.”
.
Ya see I have this major “I can do anything” complex from well, having to do MOST things on my own.
.
I also spent my life taking note of all the people in my life who would panic about potential dangers or be too afraid to take risks.
.
Then I observed the risk takers. They were always ok and usually had an awesome story to tell.
.
At the end of the day I live by the belief that you can fail doing something you DON’T love, and you can die playing it SAFE.
.
Danger and failure is not out of reach for anyone so I may as well live my life fearlessly.
.
Poor Tom loves and fears this trait in me. And I get it.
.
But when the Oregon fires tried to keep me from seeing the beach where they filmed the Goonies, I about flipped.
.
I was ready to drive right into the smoke storm.
.
Then reality kicked in. It wouldn’t be enjoyable. It wouldn’t be safe for my family.
.
So we turned around.
.
You see, there is a difference between living recklessly and living fearlessly.
.
However, the more I have come to value my one life on earth the more I see living safely as being just as reckless as ... living recklessly.
.
How about you? Do you feel you know how to live fearlessly?
.
.
.
.
.
#livefearlessly #familieswhohike #familieswhotravel #livewithfaith #walkbyfaith #onelifetolive #livewell #selfgrowthjourney #spiritualawakening #stubborngirl #lifecoach #lifecoachingforwomen #fearlessmotivation #iwillkeepyouwild #safeandwild #oppostiesattract

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Have you ever considered NOT being an active parti

Have you ever considered NOT being an active participant in your own life? For just a second?
.
I started writing a book.
.
After sharing my life stories on TikTok I’m beginning to realize I just might have something to say. A story worth telling.
.
So I started writing today and you know what?
.
I have been through some shit, folks!! Wow! 😳
.
I forget because I choose not to reflect or live in the past. But hot damn.
.
Another thing I’m realizing as I reflect back on some of the darkest days?
.
I didn’t perceive them as darkness. They were just another day. Not good. Not bad.
.
I think back on dark, dark times like my son’s illness and I think ... during those times I just had to let life happen to me. No more pushing or hustling. I had to “let go and let God” as they say.
.
But it wasn’t an active choice. Just a natural response. I just let go and become present in each moment.
.
So as I dive deeper into my childhood years, I keep saying the word, chaos. Chaos.
.
That’s all there was. Chaos. But I was always still. Nothing was “traumatic.” It just was.
.
Maybe I was just existing. Just allowing. Just letting go and letting God.
.
The whole time I was being guided. — I would pray to a God outside of myself but as I retell these stories I see, that God presence was within me.
.
God shows up in chaos. And when my whole childhood felt like chaos, I can see how that relationship was strengthened ... and I was completely unaware of it.
.
We so badly want to show up for our lives (as we should). But we often start pushing and striving for where we think we need to go. Where we think we need to be.
.
It’s like we have the option to just sit in a row boat and easily paddle downstream but instead we try taking a different path or fighting the current. Or we see someone else’s boat in a different stream, so we try to get to that stream because we think it’s BETTER than ours.
.
But WHAT IF we just allowed ourselves to exist? Allowed ourselves to let go. To stop being so damn active for just a second?
.
We would take in each moment, interpret it differently. We would feel more peace. We could learn in chaos.
#thankschaos #letgoandletgod

Wouldn’t it be great if life was as predictable

Wouldn’t it be great if life was as predictable as a movie?
.
They fall in love and stay in love. No further conflicts arise or make them question their decision.
.
She learns she doesn’t need a man. Inner turmoil over. Trust issues resolved. She could be happily alone forever.
.
They start the business, struggle for 2 seconds and then BOOM millionaire status and find the loves of their life. No work/life balance power struggles here.
.
Is there a movie where the main character just sits in her bed for days and days debating the 800 different choices she might want to make in order to live a life with purpose, fun and money?
.
Would it be entertaining to watch someone slip into slow, silent moments of a total self-identity crisis?
.
No music allowed. There is already too much chaos in her head.
.
Silent film. Low movement. Lots of facial expressions of panic. Sounds like something Andy Warhol would have made 😂
.
Should I start filming myself in these moments and then call it art? 🤔
.
Ultimately what I’m trying to say is Baby can take herself out of her own damn corner, ok Johnny (hoping you get that reference) and ya know what? She’s probably going to have to keep doing it over and over again because life is complicated like that.
.
For those of you asking the questions like, “What’s next for me?” “Am I doing what I’m supposed to be doing?” “Can someone just TELL me the next right move?!”
.
This is to let you know, you are not alone.
.
Embrace the flow of life. Dance when you can. Don’t overthink it. Try to enjoy the unknown and have the time of your life.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#dirtydancing #lifeisntamovie #moviemontage #lifemetaphor #lifecoach #inspiredliving #entrepreneurlifestyle #selfdoubt #mentalhealth #purposedrivenlife #livingwithpurpose #minneapolis #meetminneapolis #stonearchbridge #nooneputsbabyinthecorner

I am starting to fear a Covid winter. Anyone else?

I am starting to fear a Covid winter. Anyone else?
.
I’m realizing there are less free options outside the home and it’s making me a little anxious.
.
It was so “easy” when quarantine hit...we just bought a minivan and started camping out of it.
.
Somehow camping out of it is less appealing when snow is coming and temps are headed to below freezing 🥶 🚐
.
Trying to make a #hyggehome and will probably up the “go out” budget.
.
Any other social butterflies feeing a little panic around a socially distanced winter?
.
.
.
.
.
#covidwinter #winteriscoming #glaciernationalpark #familieswhotravel #travelfamily #minivanlife #covid2020 #quarantine

Bald, bankrupt, divorced, recovering alcoholic and

Bald, bankrupt, divorced, recovering alcoholic and single dad were NOT on my list.
.
I had a coaching call yesterday where we talked about manifesting/praying for an ideal partner.
.
I have been open about making a list of all the qualities I found important in a potential partner just before I met Tom. Here’s some of the big ones:
👉🏽 Fit but not appearance obsessed
👉🏽 NO GAMERS!
👉🏽 Likes sports but isn’t on any of those leagues
👉🏽 Has not slept with half the female population
👉🏽 Makes me laugh (this was most likely number one on the list)
👉🏽 Listens to me and can have serious conversations (followed closely by this one).
.
If I had heard about Tom’s traits alone (the first few I listed) I would have screamed NO WAY!! That one is NOT FOR ME!
.
But as I realized he met everything on my list, I realized some important things.
👉🏽 No one can help balding. At least he ditched the horse shoe look
👉🏽 His bankruptcy was in large part due to the fact that he spent tens of thousands of dollars fighting for custody of his daughter
👉🏽 Recovering alcoholic means he recognized this problem, sought counseling for himself, stopped hanging out with negative influences and was...
👉🏽 Trying to be the best solo dad he could possibly be.
.
Let’s never forget we all come with baggage.
.
Let’s never forget not to focus too hard on faults or mistakes.
.
Be particular but not picky. Unless you want others to be the same way with you.
.
I have constantly pondered what has made our 12 year marriage successful and at the end of the day it boils down to 2 factors:
👉🏽 We both went through a lot of crap and made a lot of mistakes!
👉🏽 We met each other at a time where we were both determined to live better moving forward.
.
Don’t focus too hard on a list, or on small qualities.
.
Focus on the feelings you want in your relationship.
.
Imagine the strong bond you want.
.
Seek that.
.
And only seek those who want the same.
.
Happy Friday. 🤪
.
.
.
.
.
#marriagegoals #marriageadvice #manifestingmindset #manifestyourdreams #marriagestory #husbandandwifegoals #honestmarriage #growtogether #selfimprovements #selfgrowthjourney #marriedmybestfriend #strongertogether💪

That face you make when that one person KEEPS doin

That face you make when that one person KEEPS doing that thing you hate that they do.
.
Spoiler alert: leave them to their own devices. (Swipe for the full breakdown)
.
Other people’s stories, the struggles they face or the issues we believe they have are none of our business.
.
Focusing on someone else’s perceived lack is really a way for us to distract ourselves from where we believe we are lacking.
.
If you want to find consciousness in others, you must first work to find consciousness in yourself.
.
Also, if their behavior is repeated or like clockwork, allowing yourself to repeat your same reaction will never improve the situation.
.
All you can do is change how you show up.
.
This doesn’t mean you need to be walked on or disrespected.
.
It just means you show up differently to save your own sanity.
.
.
.
.
.
.
#innerwork #spiritualgrowthspurts #spiritualawakeningquotes #lifecoachingforwomen #otherpeopleskids #drivemecrazy #conciousliving #conciousness #conciousminds #awakenedwoman #awakenedmind #awakenedconsciouscollective #lifecoach #coffeetime #coffeedate

Are you following someone else’s blueprint?! . F

Are you following someone else’s blueprint?!
.
First thought...yeah, there are guidelines for a good life. Like being kind to your body, letting go of anger and loving others.
.
But do you find yourself following someone else’s plan for success?
.
👉🏽 5am wake up
👉🏽 Drinking a gallon of water
👉🏽 5 days a week workouts
👉🏽 Having a daily schedule
👉🏽 Date nights once a week
👉🏽 Make your bed
.
Now, don’t get me wrong, there are things that can HELP improve your life, HELP you accomplish what you want.
.
But answer me this, and be honest...could you still follow all of those guidelines and be miserable?
.
In a desire for results or change we can get caught up in the outter work and ignore the inner work and our spiritual connection.
.
Why? Well, honestly, because the inner work is harder.
.
We don’t want to face our demons. Making your bed in the morning is a lot easier than sitting with the discomfort of knowing you are in a job that’s unfulfilling.
.
So you hope if you neatly make the bed and drink your water, the outter successes will trick you into believing you have inner success.
.
So the next time you get swept up in reading about someone else’s plan for success or a new tactic for self improvement ask yourself what FEELING you are really seeking. Check in to see if you are using this outter strategy as a way to avoid an inner problem.
.
If you’re ready for the inner work, join my Undefined training. You can sign up on my website👆🏽This is the kick-starter guide to helping you get back in tune with YOU rather than seeking external resources or validation. And I would love to have you there. ❤️
.
.
.
.
.
#innerhealing #innerworkings #innerchildhealing #reparenting #selfgrowthjourney #spiritualawakeningquotes #lifecoaching101 #findyourpurpose #purposedriven #familieswhotravel #momswhohike #lifecoachformoms #wildlifephotography

There is a good chance your goal journal is holdin

There is a good chance your goal journal is holding you back.
.
Remember when you were a kid and you wanted ice cream for every meal? 🍨What would have happened if you would have gotten it? You would have been thrilled for a while, right? Then...mostly likely...stomach ache and nasty teeth. 😳
.
Remember in high school when you were soooo in love?! It was love FOR SURE! ❤️ Now you’ve grown up and that “love of your life” literally hasn’t aged a day since high school and not in a good way. What would have happened??? 😳
.
How about now when you write millionaire goals, true love goals, weight goals...
.
There is a good chance that these might happen:
👉🏽 You will be UNHAPPY every day until those goals are reached
👉🏽 If anything steers you away from a goal, you will feel like a failure
👉🏽 You go into “hustle” mode and live in a total state of exhaustion
👉🏽 You obsess over your goal and let other areas of your life slide
👉🏽 You attain your goal. You are happy! Now what? Time to chase the next one! (Follow steps 1-4)
👉🏽 You attain your goal. You’re not happy. It’s not quite what you thought.
.
Are these steps ABSOLUTE? No. You could totally set a goal, attain it and do it in a chill, happy manor while maintaining the balance of all other areas of your life.
.
BUT if you are like the majority of us (me too), these steps will hold true.
.
So what the hell do you do to accomplish anything if you shouldn’t set goals?
.
Try these...
👉🏽Daily goals - workout to feel good, reach out to 5 potential clients, write 1 chapter of the book
👉🏽Emotion goals - what emotion do you crave that lives at the heart of all of your “goals.” Work on existing with this emotion right now.
👉🏽Serving goals - how do you want to have showed up in the world? As a hustler? An inspirer? A helper? How can you combine this desire with your biggest goals?
.
Then (and this is key) allow your goals, dreams or visions to shift.
.
I had a goal of marrying my true love but if I had insisted he look identical to Chris Hemsworth, I would be missing out on an amazing marriage 😉
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The thing is, our goals are usually a front for the deeper life we truly seek.
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Don’t be mislead.
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#goalsetting2020

On vacation I tried to manipulate fire 🔥 . Our

On vacation I tried to manipulate fire 🔥
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Our little family climbed this mini mountain in North Dakota. The entire time Tom kept saying, “We can’t do this.” “This is too hard.” And the whole time in my head I was going, “Ugh stop it ya big baby.”
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Ya see I have this major “I can do anything” complex from well, having to do MOST things on my own.
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I also spent my life taking note of all the people in my life who would panic about potential dangers or be too afraid to take risks.
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Then I observed the risk takers. They were always ok and usually had an awesome story to tell.
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At the end of the day I live by the belief that you can fail doing something you DON’T love, and you can die playing it SAFE.
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Danger and failure is not out of reach for anyone so I may as well live my life fearlessly.
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Poor Tom loves and fears this trait in me. And I get it.
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But when the Oregon fires tried to keep me from seeing the beach where they filmed the Goonies, I about flipped.
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I was ready to drive right into the smoke storm.
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Then reality kicked in. It wouldn’t be enjoyable. It wouldn’t be safe for my family.
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So we turned around.
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You see, there is a difference between living recklessly and living fearlessly.
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However, the more I have come to value my one life on earth the more I see living safely as being just as reckless as ... living recklessly.
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How about you? Do you feel you know how to live fearlessly?
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#livefearlessly #familieswhohike #familieswhotravel #livewithfaith #walkbyfaith #onelifetolive #livewell #selfgrowthjourney #spiritualawakening #stubborngirl #lifecoach #lifecoachingforwomen #fearlessmotivation #iwillkeepyouwild #safeandwild #oppostiesattract

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