The idea of living on one income can be a scary thought for most couples. When you have two able bodied people, it can be tough to see any positive side to not having two steady streams of income. Considering that 71% of all workers in the United States say they are in debt, it’s no surprise that one income families are seen less and less. More often than not, people are just working to support their bad spending habits. Even in two income households, a whopping 78% of workers say they are still living paycheck to paycheck. But there is some light at the end of the tunnel. Having been a stay at home mom for over 10 years, there are some major benefits to living on one income that I would love to share with you. Particularly living on one income when you’re paying off debt.
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When you are living on one income it means there is a primary bread winner whose income you completely live off of. Maybe that sounds obvious. What I mean is one income is enough to support your rent/mortgage, all of your bills, groceries, gas and spending money.
Living off one income is common in households where one parents chooses to stay home and raise the children and can be a very scary step to take if both parents had previously been working.
It might be a scary step, but it is a very doable thing. Trust me, I’ve been doing it for over a decade! Wow, I’m old. Fully depending on my husband to provide has dealt us a fair amount of stress, but it also forced us to make better financial decisions and grow closer in our marriage.
At first, we weren’t really great at living on one income. We were very much a part of the 78% of workers who were living paycheck to paycheck while simultaneously incurring more and more debt.
In the last 3 years we have gotten intentional about getting out of debt and staying out of it and surprisingly, living on one income has been highly beneficial during this process. Let me break down for you exactly how it has benefited us.
First of all, in order to successfully pay off debt, you need a good debt payoff strategy. For us, this has been Dave Ramsey’s Debt Snowball. Check out all of Dave Ramsey’s Baby Steps here.
In just 6 months of paying off our debt with the Debt Snowball, we were able to knock out $6,000 of debt. Considering that we had been previously living paycheck to paycheck, finding an average of $1,000 per month to put toward debt is pretty impressive. After paying off those debts, we took a small break and then started back up this year.
Over the last 7 years we have paid off about $90,000 worth of debt and that has been living on one income! So, how did our one income lifestyle benefit us during this time?
When you have serious debt, there are three options you have to help you tackle it before starting the debt snowball:
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In order to be a successful stay at home mom, I have had to make sure I have been in constant communication with my husband about our finances. He in turn has had to understand how our budget needed to be used toward me and the children.
We weren’t always great at budgeting together. For years, we let mis-communicating about money stand in our way of financial peace and I’m sure that’s where a lot of our debt accumulating came from. If you are living on one budget and especially if you are married, I can’t encourage you enough to have an open communication abut every single dollar you spend. How to Discuss and Execute a Budget with Your Spouse
When you know you have a limited income, it can either encourage you to just charge everything and dig deeper into debt, or force you to live a little bit more frugal of a lifestyle.
Get a solid budget down and stick to it, create sinking funds in order to help you save for big purchases, find ways to save money on groceries, and all around spend your money intentionally. Living on one income can be a great way to be forced into being more purposeful with your spending.
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When you are living on a limited budget, sitting down and really thinking through each spending decision is the best strategy.
Rather than seeing your one income as a road block keeping you from better things, try to see it as a huge benefit that forces you to slow down and make better choices.
If one of the main reasons why you live on one income is because one parent is staying home with children, you are potentially saving huge by avoiding daycare costs. The rising cost of daycare is probably the leading drive behind why so many families choose to have one parent at home in the first place.
Another benefit to staying home, is less gas. This is great for the environment and your pocket book!
Here’s my favorite reason! When you are successfully living on and paying all of your bills with one income, any other money you make is fair game!
If you’re not in debt, this means you could build an amazing savings (check out the best accounts to open) or plan for fantastic vacations.
When you are in debt, it means you have an opportunity to get out of it with less stress as long as you stick to your debt payoff game plan.
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Check out the exact strategy of the Debt Snowball and take advantage of my FREE printout.
If you have no clue where you could possibly find additional money in your budget, I highly recommend taking advantage of the Trim app. Trim looks at your spending habits and instantly finds ways where you could be saving money. As soon as I plugged in my information, Trim found me a discount for my monthly internet bill!
When you can’t find a way to reduce your spending or find extra money in your budget, then it might be time to look into additional ways to make money!
There are a ton of options to earn extra cash depending on how much time you have and how much money you need. As far as flexibility to work from home and choosing your own hours, these are my top recommendations:
I have learned first hand just how tempting it can be to start spending when you are bringing in a second income (no matter how small.) Don’t give into this temptation! Stay focused on your goals and keeping living on one income in order to get your debt paid off as fast as possible.
Imagine how freeing it will feel the day that you can claim total financial freedom. Stay focused on that feeling. You’ve got this!